When do you tell people?

Keeping this a secret is kind of hard, friends planning yacht trips in Greece for next summer, people wanting to organise motorbike adventures, not telling them means they likely waste effort planning for me to attend, but telling them early on means having to tell them it didn't work out if there is a future issue that results in a miscarriage. I guess this comes from having to tell people you subsequently had a miscarriage if things do not work out, or if the test for down syndrome comes back positive.

Currently the plan is to not tell anybody till after the dating scan, which should give some idea of health and then tell people it will affect such as the ones planning sailing trips we will never be able to make till after the downs syndrome test comes back negative around week 12.

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